Lesson n 1: On enthousiasm

Hello:)
from my little limited experiences in life, i hav learnt some lessons, one of them " don't get too enthousiastic abt sth or someone, most probably u will be disappointed"!!!
being over enthousiastic makes u see a castle in a small house, a prince in an ordinary person, remember, not all what looks yummy it is, u need to taste it to know by urself...
enthousiasm is good, wanting sth and working hard to get it is great, but over enthousiasm turns u into a dreamy person drawing illogical, unreachable paths, while it has been possible to see a better way if u hav had reduced ur enthousism level.
Sometimes we get over enthousiastic abt sth we think it is the best for us, thus we start building our mgical castles, but ooops, oneday everything collaps....and it's hard.
It's hard to accept the fact that our magical caslte can no more be real.in fact, we should be happy it has collapsed, smetimes some things haven't meant to be. and we should accept the fact that it's better for us when our magical castles disappear.
i did this, still doing it sometimes , created, n creating many castles, lots hav crashed, and ohhh, how bad i felt...:), but with time, i thanked God it no more exist, it was the best for me, now i can see more clear.
it takes time to choose a real house over a magical castle, a real person over a charming prince, reality over a deceptive dream....
" be enthousiastic but see clearly, dream big but keep an eye on ur reality" myself
TO BE CONTINUED...
PS: lool, i'm writing these stuff trying to conveince myself, hope it works:)